\”The Empty Vessel Never Filled,\” by Dr. Jim Rigby
I promised you pages on the people, places, things, and experiences that have made my life wonderful; so, may I start at the TOP? Here’s Dr. Jim Rigby of Austin, Texas, teaching on what he calls, “The Empty Vessel Never Filled,” but I call it, “Finding the Eternal in the Temporal.”
This podcast is his most recent scholarly presentation, given live before a mixed audience of Christians, Atheists, Agnostics, Pantheists, Buddhists, Taoists, and persons of just about any religious or anti-religious perspective. Worth bearing in mind, perhaps, is the fact that his audience assembled themselves in a small building, located in Austin’s northern Wells Branch suburb, called St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church, where justice advocate and often controversial Dr. Rigby has taught for more than twenty years, for the specific purpose of hearing him [Reverend Dr. Jim Rigby] speak his mind on his topic of choice.
His teachings have oftentimes ignited harsh criticism from theologians, traditional religious figures, the Presbyterian Synod, Mission Presbytery, legal zealots, anti-gay activists and even members and former members of the church itself.
In this particular podcast, Jim dares to merge Taoist teachings with Christian teachings into one that has the power to continuously inform and transform our lives, providing richness and presentness:
http://www.staopen.com/podcast/index.php
To hear Dr. Rigby’s views on Taoism and Christianity, click on the above podcast link and choose from the index of topics, “The Empty Vessel Never Filled.” Your comments are invited. I look forward to hearing from you.–It’s a Wonder-ful Life! Ash
WHEN YOU LOVE, YOU’RE A FAR GREATER PERSON
August 5, 2008
Because I loved you, I became a far greater me.
Loving you gave me the desire to live kindly with generosity toward all I could see;
I aspired to always succeed in ever new endeavors, to exceed all past success;
It was so important that my life earned your trust and your respect, without regress;
Never giving you cause to regret loving me, was everything;
Because you made my heart sing.
Because I loved you, I loved more, laughed more, cried more, lived more, worked more;
Beacause I loved you, my day was brighter, I walked lighter; I almost flew;
You made my heart soar.
When you left, I learned to love you still,
What a great gift–overcoming my will.
In loving you still, I learned to surrender my ego.
But when our paths diverged and I had to let you go,
I felt empty and small; it was a crushing blow.
Because I let go of loving you, I forfeited my heart.
I am become a lesser me.
LOVE REALLY IZ IZ!
July 29, 2008
Meet IZ! I belong to him. He picked me to be his human companion, five and half years ago, at Buchannan General Store, in Buchannan, Texas.
I’ll always remember that day. It was just before Easter that year. My husband, both my daughters, all of my grandchildren, and my brother and his wife from California were all with me in Austin, TX for the Easter Season. Eleven of us caravanned out to Lake Buchannan, where we met Jim Eachus, the owner of the General Store there.
When my husband and I went our separate ways, we were both very grateful that we had two border collies. Ali went with my husband and IZ remains with me…my constant joy, friend and companion.
HOW DID ONE ROOF BECOME SO POPULAR?
July 26, 2008
Who can tell us when the concept of men and women living together under one roof became widely accepted? Who would vote with me to end this senseless practice?
I believe that the world today would be a much more peaceful planet, were the sexes to agree to live separately. Sincerely, who wouldn’t be able to love and respect their husband, wife, lover more, were they allowed the space and freedom of autonomous living? Sure, your “standard of living” may not be quite the same, but with your quality of life and relationship enhanced, suffering would be counted as gain.
With the advances in personal freedom, mutual love, respect, and peaceful relationships, doesn’t it stand to reason that the personal gains would rise through the hierarchy of community, national and international interactions and relationships? What I’m asking is, wouldn’t we live more peacefully on a global scale, if we had peace at the family level? What could we possibly be sacrificing by providing for privacy and space–what I consider to be most elemental and foundational in our “hierarchy of needs.” [Maslow]
Once you’ve given it some thought, allowed the concept to sink in, your ideas on how to accomplish this shift in societal thinking are welcome. Is this worthwhile? Why or why not?
Keep in mind, I’m not devaluing or discrediting men or women, families or singularities, marriage or non-married unions; to the contrary, I’m only recognizing the value in respecting and supporting one’s own and well as the significant others’ person, space, individuality, autonomy, and freedom to agree to when and how to share those along with time and energy with another; as well as, acknowledging how unsatisfying the nature of cohabitation of couples truly is. Before you argue, note that statistically, divorce rates and unhappy “marriages” bear this out. Maybe, it’s not our marriages that are unhappy; maybe, just maybe, living together, beneath the same roof, seeing each other every day, day in and night out, is an impossible way to live and support happiness and harmonious living. Simply because, Love, peace and harmony are not by-products of control or invasion or even suffering in silence or outloud with someone else’s intolerabilities.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and ideas, so get to blogging.
LOVE LIST
July 24, 2008
Love enjoys.
Love is grateful.
Love surrenders the ego…is humble.
Love works.
Love plays.
Love renews.
Love, like water, is powerful.
Love recognizes there is never anything to forgive.
Love moves mountains.
Love is not about what I can do for you, it’s about believing in you.
Love sees the Perfection and knows that All is Well.
We are loved.
I believe in You.




